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  • Investigate your school's efforts to support SEL. Keep in mind that programs take on many forms and are called by many different names, including character education, leadership, conflict resolution, or peer mediation. Author Elias has identified four ideal components of a school's SEL program: a specific program to support social-emotional learning, problem-prevention and health promotion activities, support services to address transitions, crises, and conflicts, and a commitment to community service. Ask your child, his or her teacher, and your school principal about activities and programs in each of these key areas.
  • Organize guest speakers. Work with your school's parent organization to identify experts within your community who can speak to parents and teachers about strategies for nurturing emotionally intelligent children.
  • Get involved. Consider volunteering for a school or a school district committee responsible for overseeing the implementation of programs to support SEL. Note: At a district level, these programs are often (though not always) part of a safety or violence prevention department. Celebrate diversity. Work with other parents and school staff to organize programs and events to celebrate and honor the many cultures in your school community.
  • Begin the discussion. If your school does not have any programs around social and emotional learning, work with others in your school and larger community to create what Linda Lantieri, director of the Resolving Conflict Creatively Program, calls a "web of support." Bring together leaders from throughout your community - business people and law enforcement, parents and educators -- to discuss ways in which your community can make the emotional health and wellness of children a priority.

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